Speaking of premarital sex, I've never "deeply" pondered this issue before. I was always like, "hmm...it's okay...uh, maybe it depends." Since Justin talked about his own opinion on his blog and put his words baldly, that just inspired me to think about this problem seriously.
To be frank, I don't know where to start and even don't know how to end up this article. There are just too many conditions needed to be considered. When I was little - at least little enough to understand sex and marriage - I never saw divorce as one of my plans. Later, as I grow up, divorce seems to be not a big deal anymore. I can't tell you what changes my view which I also have no idea where comes from. I guess it's possibly from American media...like hollywoods, where people take divorces as common as doing drugs.
Contraception! I have to clear my position first. Since I'm female, I side with women against men. There is no way having sex without contraception. Guys may like, "Yeah, yea... condoms ruin everything." Hold on! Do you know an unexpected baby ruins two lives? If the guy is at least made of responsibility, that baby will change more things than what a condom does. You think an orgasm is more important than your future? No way. Guys may debate, "Come on, you can't hold it! Do you girls really like that?" I'd say... Yes! Contraception means a lot! It means being free from STD, AIDS, abortion, among others. Ha, it sound like I'm a condom seller.
Premarital sex happens when two people don't get married and get laid. When there is no marriage, there is no promise, no responsibilities. It won't matter if those two are ready for a new life or if nothing happens. But what if there IS a heartbeat growing strong? Who will take the aftermath? Most likely, women do. However, there are still some happily-ever-after stories after premarital sex, but rarely.
Some say marriage is just a piece of paper which is symbolized by human beings only as a promise. I know marriage is a civilized result of law and order, we are living under the system though. You want to break it? Then leave the public and don't take education and health care insurance for granted.
If you can't take the responsibility, please hold on for a sencond, for men and women both. Premarital sex is serious only when life is seen as a game. But if those two are happy for it, responsible for it and ready for it, then premarital sex is nothing at all. I mean, what's wrong with having a good time with the one you "love"?
To be frank, I don't know where to start and even don't know how to end up this article. There are just too many conditions needed to be considered. When I was little - at least little enough to understand sex and marriage - I never saw divorce as one of my plans. Later, as I grow up, divorce seems to be not a big deal anymore. I can't tell you what changes my view which I also have no idea where comes from. I guess it's possibly from American media...like hollywoods, where people take divorces as common as doing drugs.
Contraception! I have to clear my position first. Since I'm female, I side with women against men. There is no way having sex without contraception. Guys may like, "Yeah, yea... condoms ruin everything." Hold on! Do you know an unexpected baby ruins two lives? If the guy is at least made of responsibility, that baby will change more things than what a condom does. You think an orgasm is more important than your future? No way. Guys may debate, "Come on, you can't hold it! Do you girls really like that?" I'd say... Yes! Contraception means a lot! It means being free from STD, AIDS, abortion, among others. Ha, it sound like I'm a condom seller.
Premarital sex happens when two people don't get married and get laid. When there is no marriage, there is no promise, no responsibilities. It won't matter if those two are ready for a new life or if nothing happens. But what if there IS a heartbeat growing strong? Who will take the aftermath? Most likely, women do. However, there are still some happily-ever-after stories after premarital sex, but rarely.
Some say marriage is just a piece of paper which is symbolized by human beings only as a promise. I know marriage is a civilized result of law and order, we are living under the system though. You want to break it? Then leave the public and don't take education and health care insurance for granted.
If you can't take the responsibility, please hold on for a sencond, for men and women both. Premarital sex is serious only when life is seen as a game. But if those two are happy for it, responsible for it and ready for it, then premarital sex is nothing at all. I mean, what's wrong with having a good time with the one you "love"?
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