"We, as parents, are just worried about you, afraid that you would get in trouble by knowing some horny guys or pervs." "I'm just trying to tell you what I've learned so that you won't have to get through all of these." "Sense of safety is pretty important, instead of other factors when choosing friends." I thought my parents wouldn't interrupt how I deal with my friends.
I mean, I am nineteen years old for Christ sake's, almost twenty. How can't I tell right from wrong? Everyone has its own way to make friends. They say they won't poke their nose into my friends, but "Freunden" is not included. Great, this is the most terrified thing that I'm scared to face. Just because I'm a girl, I'm so-called female-needed-to-be-protected, they feel obliged to pay attention to my Freunden choosing. You know what? I have my own standard. I can decide by myself that who I want to be with, and who I don't want to give a shit.
Their worries are totally understandable actually. I'm not saying that your worries are not necessary. I appreciate that, I really do. The concerns mean I'm still the apple of your eye. But I have to say your words can only be taken as suggestions, not orders. I'll keep that in mind. However, something can't be changed if I've already done. And I won't change it. I always listen to my voice at the end, anyway.
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