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Saturday, October 31, 2009

The Language of Friendship and Love

The language of friendship. The language of love. Well, I couldn't understand how deep the gap is between these two similar and obscure human talks. Instead of asking what you have for dinner and where you are, does the language of love contain something unspeakable? I'm impressed that however subtle the facial expressions are, we somehow get to know what others are thinking, or at least make a guess.

There are conversation struck up by saying "love you" in the language of friendship, and definitely so does the language of love. But, what interests me is that how we distinguish the definition of love between friends from the definition of love with the right one. So, this is also what makes relationships go more complicated than usual when it comes to the same sex rather than the opposite sex.

As for me, I don't have the experience of being confused about the above mentioned problem, same-sex illusion, whereas I think I've gone through a problem called "love-blind," which I thought I would never have. I'm always armed with the ability to observe in advance and escape in the end. Therefore, the illusion will disappear right in time and leave no doubt. I was proud of it, since every time it's always me that took control. Later on, I failed once. After that, I couldn't speak in the right language.

"You expressed it in a wrong way."
"There is no such thing as pure relationship between man and woman at your age."
"Don't you know that means a lot?"

Maybe, I should take a course called language use,unlimited worldwide version.

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